My Treasure Basket

My Husband’s First Gift

I received my husband’s first gift to me last December 17, 2000 during the courtship period. He invited all of my friends to their house during a Feast in Guadalupe, Cebu City. I remembered, although I did not expect it, that his family was excited to know me especially the youngest in their family who was then about 8 years old that time. There were 5 of us who were invited and Dona, his youngest sister, asked all of us our names. I didn’t know why but I introduced myself as “Marie” my second name. I could see her confusion when she couldn’t find the person she was looking for. She told my husband which I also overheard “She is not here! I already asked all of them.” My husband who is very close to his sisters told her to ask again. Then he went to me and asked me, “What did you tell her your name is?” I said “Marie. Why?” He told me that his youngest sister was looking for me. It was discovered later that evening when she asked me again. I didn’t have a choice. I didn’t want to tell a lie. She was very talkative that time. She asked me a lot of things. She told me a lot of things as well. It was a nice conversation.

When we were about to leave my husband, who was then my admirer and suitor I guess, hand me a small box. He told me to open it. My friends were envious as they only received candies from him. I was excited to open it. I found an image of Mother Mary and Her Child. It was one of the most beautiful gifts I received! I didn’t know that my husband really cared for me that time. I was so happy and later that night I slept with the gift beside me.